PLZZZ………AVOID THE THORNS

LIFE IS NOT A BED OF ROSES – goes according to a famous saying….. so u may think….. Is it a bed full of thorns?? Well, according to me, Life is a bed of Roses, Roses do have thorns (a fact), all u need to do is… avoid the thorns. It is the way we look at things because each day in life has something to teach us and life is a learning process, so there’s no big deal if you get thorns sometimes. A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. Whatever we may think, plan or rather may even achieve it to the closest end….but life surprises us with an enormous change…a change that was carried over from the past and may affect our present, our future…………

You won’t realize what sweet is until you taste sour. Same is the case with life; you won’t realize how beautiful it is, until you face the challenges and struggle to achieve your goal. If there were no sad moments, the worth of happy moments couldn’t be realized. We must always remember…that “Nothing is Permanent, not even worries” and each phase of life will pass away giving us some unforgettable memories. After every dark night there is a morning filled with lots of light.

That’s what life is…..unpredictable

Life is a Do-It-Yourself Project

An elderly carpenter was ready to retire. He told his employer-of his plans to leave the house building business and live a more leisurely life with his wife enjoying his extended family.

He would miss the paycheck, but he wanted to retire. The contractor was sorry to see his good worker go and asked if he could build just one more house as a personal favor. The carpenter said yes, but his heart was not in his work. He resorted to shoddy workmanship and used inferior materials. It was an unfortunate way to end his career.

When the carpenter finished his work and the builder came to inspect the house, the contractor handed the front-door key to the carpenter. "This is your house," he said, "my gift to you."

What a shock! What a shame! If he had only known he was building his own house, he would have done it all so differently. Now he had to live in the home he had built none too well.

So it is with us. If we build our lives in a distracted way, reacting rather than acting, willing to put up less than the best. At important points we do not give the job our best effort. Then with a shock we look at the situation we have created and find that we are now living in the house we have built. If we had realized that, we would have done it differently.

Think of yourself as the carpenter. Think about your house. Each day you hammer a nail, place a board, or erect a wall. Build wisely.

It is the only life you will ever build. Even if you live it for only one day more, that day deserves to be lived graciously and with dignity.

Your attitudes and the choices you make today will be your life tomorrow, build it wisely.

This post is dedicated to a very special person...my brother who has always been my inspiration, my encouragement, my wellwisher, my friend, my guide........ i know bro how much u care and love us...bt i cant depict my love fr u in words.... I can realise what stage you might be going through and at this point i hav some lines especially for u (to try to motivate u as much as i can) :



raastein mein rukna nahi...pichee mudkar dekhna nahi....
bas aage badha chal...manzil bahut kareeb hai tere....
Ishvar par se vishwaas khona nahi kabhie....
kuch sochkar udaas hona nahi kabhie....

raahon mein teri bahut se modd hai....thakkar haar maanna nahi kabhie....
jinn pairon ne mujhe chalna aur sambhalna sikhaya... unhe thakne dena nahi kabhie....
jo beet gaya wo sapna tha....uss khwaab ko hakeekat samajhna nahi kabhie....
aise hi toofaano se ladte jaana....aage badhne se darna nahi kabhie....
kuch sochkar udaas hona nahi kabhie....

mujhe yakeen hai..wo dinn pass hai....
jab tere liye bhi uske pass kuch khass hai...
bas ek aur kadam ki doori hai....
naya raasta tay karna zaroori hai....

ab mere bhai tu sochna band kar....
aur meri iss nasihat par gaur kar....

Lamhe... College ke lamhe

Nayein raahein, naya safar hai aane ko,
Tyaar hai hum bhi, zindagi ka agla padaav paane ko,
Par naa jaane kyun, aaj dil mein kuch aur aata hai
Samay ki dhaara ko yahin rokne ko mann chahta hai

Char saalon ka safar char palon mein beet gaya
Par lagta hai aaj bhi jaise, kuch peeche reh gaya
Kuch rishtey... kuch yaadein... nayi judd gayi
Wahi yaadein….. jo ab jeene ka sahara bann gayi

Jinn baaton ko lekar rote the, aaj unn par hastein hai
Aaj unn palon ko yaad kar, aankhein namm kiya karte hai
Wo miss calls ki gupshup, wo sms bharmaar
Wo Room calls, aur seniors ka pyar
Wo raat bhar saath jaagkar padhna
Aur bina matlab… kisi se bhi jhagadna
Wo anginat styles of timepass kaise bhuleinge
Wo haseen pal ab dobara kiske saath jiyenge
Wo first tech fair aur last trip ki masti
Chah kar bhi nahi bhulti
Kab hastein gaate ye pal beet gaye………..
Aaj to hum bhi college ke lamho ko yaad karte reh gaye…………